Wed 30 May 2007
What to Do if You Think You Are Pregnant
Posted by Lisa Mitchell under Pregnancy , Early Signs of PregnancyI have received several comments on my article, Early Signs of Pregnancy, from readers wondering what they should do if they think they may be pregnant. I thought I would write a quick article with some suggestions to help other readers who may be wondering the same thing.
There are really only a couple of things you can to do determine if you really are pregnant.
- You can opt to take a home pregnancy test. These can be purchased from any pharmacy or grocery store. There are many options on the market so be sure to read the labels and pick one that suits you preferences and needs. Home pregnancy tests have fairly high accuracy rates when used correctly and used at the proper time. False positives are very rare.
OR
- You can visit your doctor for a doctor administered urine pregnancy test (similar to home pregnancy tests) or a blood test. Many women feel more comfortable hearing the results directly from their doctor, especially if you are unsure about performing the home test properly. If you don’t have a regular doctor or lack health insurance you can also go to a clinic to have these doctor administered tests.
There are many early signs of pregnancy from sore and swollen breasts, cramping, exhaustion, morning sickness, and lack of or late period. All of these symptoms can also be signs of other things that may be going on, which makes it important to find out for sure. Any time you have unprotected sex (and even protected sex since no birth control is 100% accurate) there is a chance of getting pregnant. If you suspect that you may be pregnant the best thing is to take a pregnancy test.
If you have questions or concerns about your early pregnancy symptoms, or about how to get and administer a pregnancy test you should contact your doctor.
June 10th, 2007 at 10:31 pm
Well dont now how to start this off…well i have a question i am married and i am trying to get pregnant…i missed my period today is the 3rd day!!! On my first day that i have missed my period i did a pregnancy test..and it said negative
could it be too early to test a lot of people told me to wait a week…and then to redue it…i am really confused…and i did scheudle and appt..with my doctor…
June 11th, 2007 at 7:27 am
Lea,
The best thing to do, if you still don’t get your period is to test again. You can always just wait and be tested at your doctor’s appointment as well. Many pregnancy tests aren’t accurate that close to your missed period. If you do test again be sure to read the packaging to determine when it is best to test.
June 13th, 2007 at 6:21 am
Thanks Lisa
June 20th, 2007 at 11:52 pm
ok well i saw my doc the 6th day after missing my period…and my blood test came back negative…
i still did not get my period i do have sympthomes of prgnancy now its been 13 days since i did not get my period could it be still to early and i read a lot of stuff were women experianced same things and where pregnant, but all test where showing negative until 6 weeks or so. because of the hcg hormones in their body, were to low to be detected early in pregnancy….omg what should i doooooooo i cant think i am realy confudes now…plzzzzz help
June 21st, 2007 at 7:16 am
Lea,
The best thing to do is to talk to your doctor about your symptoms and concerns. Your doctor can re-do the pregnancy test and also test for anything else they think the symptoms might indicate.
July 19th, 2007 at 3:01 pm
odd question, I am a breastfeeding mother of one (he is a yr. old). but recently i have been experiencing a lot of pregnancy symptoms, exhaustion, nausea, swollen breast,late period, and the smell of my husbands after shave makes me want to put my head in the toilet. at this point i am about 5-7 days late. I took a home pregnancy test that came back neg. so i was wondering what the chances are that i am pregnant and the test was just wrong? I have not had these symptoms the whole time that i have been breastfeeding. what do you think?
July 19th, 2007 at 3:52 pm
Dottie,
I would recommend that if you still feel like you are pregnant after getting a negative result on the home test you can alway retest again in a few days or go to the doctor for a more accurate blood test.
July 30th, 2007 at 9:33 am
I’m confused. I was supposed to start my period on July 25 and when it didn’s show up I took a pregnancy test that day w/ a neg result and then took a test 5 days later with the same result.I have experienced some of the early sympthoms of pregnancy and some others the swollen tender breast,bloating in my mid section,tired,moody,cramps, back pain.Is it still to early o know if I may be pregnant? Also is it possible for your mind to convice our body that your pregnant and infact really not be?
July 30th, 2007 at 10:49 am
I think the best thing for you to do is to make an appointment with your doctor. The early signs of pregnancy can also be indicators of other problems and it is possible to get a false negative on a home pregnancy test. By going to your doctor you can feel better about the results and find out what else might be going on if you are not pregnant.
August 13th, 2007 at 1:39 am
i got my periods on 13th of July. Usually I have a 29 day cycle on average. I expected my periods to come on the 10th of August. I spotted when wiping on the 8th (just once) so I thought i was going to get my period in a couple of days. However today is the 14th of August (33 days).
Funnily this cycle i took clomid. However i had been ovulating regulary, and the ultrasound had shown 11mm follicle on day 11. My doctor advised to do OPK (which usually come out postive previously) to time intercourse. Since both my husband and i were travelling together (work) we timed sex accordingly on the days i guess i would ovulate. The OPK did not show a postive result even when i did it up to day 14-19.
I do not want to take the pregnancy test so soon. i am wondering why the OPK did not show positive esp when i had other signs of ovulation…usually even without clomid i show ovulation.
August 14th, 2007 at 2:35 pm
Anna,
I would discuss your questions with your doctor. I’m not entirely sure what those test for and how frequently they give out false results.
August 18th, 2007 at 4:42 pm
hiya i was wondering if you could help me with some questions well i am takin the contraceptive pill and i was meant to come on my period on thursday but i havent come on yet i dont know what to do.
August 21st, 2007 at 5:25 pm
its 22nd of aug.my periods were due on 2nd of aug(20 days late).my urine test&blood yest came neg,which were did on 17th of aug.i hav symp of cramping,back pain,dizziness,hungriness.is it possible that im pregnent.plz help.
August 21st, 2007 at 5:32 pm
i want to add that i hav never missed my period.my vaginal discharge is increased&totally transparent.
August 22nd, 2007 at 9:13 am
Sana,
If you think you may be pregnant you should take a home pregnancy test or go to your doctor for a test.
August 22nd, 2007 at 9:16 am
Nina,
No contraception is 100%. If there is a chance you may be pregnant you should take a home pregnancy test or go to your doctor for a test.
August 23rd, 2007 at 6:22 pm
Lea, It has been a while since you post but I have experienced what you are going through and if I were you I would ask my doctor to schedule an ultrasound to make sure you do not have ovarian cysts. In my case I was 17 days late and had a negative pregnancy test. Turns out I had a cyst steming from my ovary that hard grow to be the size of a soft ball and the size had actually constricted my ovary and prevented ovulation so that I missed my period. The cysts can be treated with medicine if caught early…my case it busted blood vessels on my right ovary and almost resulted in the loss of my ovary. I had to have emergency surgery and several blood transfusions. Please get it checked. If something along these lines is your case it could be dangerous and they can see it with an ultrasound. Good Luck and God Bless!
August 26th, 2007 at 11:45 pm
Hello. Alright, I had sex about 3 weeks ago. We did use the condom, but then we were stupid, and we did not. My partner says he did not do anything, and I did not feel anything (I have no idea if you feel the semen flow in or not, this was my very first time doing this).
Please help me.
I have no idea whether this is all in my head or what, but I have no idea if I am pregnant. I feel like crying, because if I tell my mom, I would get in soooo much trouble. I’m 17. This was my first having sex, and now I am scared.
I keep reading “Signs of Pregnancy” and everything related to that, and I still have no clue whether everything is in my head (me suddenly being paranoid) or if … I am really pregnant. I do not want my mother to know! How would I even…stop the pregnancy if I even had it? I am so clueless, not to mention stupid. Like I said, I feel like crying right now because within the last 3 weeks….
I feel bloated, but that could be for many different reasons (sometimes I do, sometimes I don’t)… maybe it is in my head– but I have been having to urinate alot more, and about the nipples being sore– Could that also be for another reason as well? As to growing, I suppose?
Please answer me, anyone. I am really afraid. Could there be many reasons to why I feel this way? Is it all in my head?
August 27th, 2007 at 7:16 am
Kayla,
The only way to know for sure if you are pregnant or not is to take a test. You can either take a home pregnancy test or go to your doctor or a clinic to have them administer the test. The best thing for you to do is get tested and then talk to a professional.
August 31st, 2007 at 4:32 am
Okay, so I am guessing that I am really pregnant. I took two pregnancy tests, both having a - and a + show up, and meaning positive, I suppose. I am so scared.
I would hate it if my mother knew. My friends are great; they are helping me as much as they can. I am going to a clinic in Delaware; (I live in MD) and apparently in Delaware, you do not have to be 18, but you do need to be over 16 to get in without a parent.
So, is ‘medical abortion’ bad? Will it work? I can not wait to have a real abortion, I just can’t do that so…the best thing would probably be the medical abortion. (I hate abortion, it is mean, but now I know how people do it…and I have a reason for doing it, and I know how people feel now)
Another situation;
Would telling my partner be a good idea? Or should I wait until down the road. We’re both too young, and he would freak out like crazy. Maybe keeping quiet is a good idea.
Hah, sorry for ranting on so much…
:)
August 31st, 2007 at 7:17 am
Kayla,
I would recommend talking to someone, perhaps a counselor at birthright or a similar facility. This is a decision that only you can make but I’m sure talking to a professional will be helpful. As far as telling your partner, that again is a decision that only you can make. You may find it helpful to tell him.
Best of luck with whatever you decide to do. Remember that you are not alone.
September 3rd, 2007 at 9:16 am
Hi, um…. ok. last friday, the 31st of Aug, I woke up in the middle of the night around 3:30 AM with lower abdominal discomfort. I went to the bathroom figuring I was just getting my period. I went and when I wiped I noticed a red tinge on the toilet paper and attributed it to the beginning of my period. I put a pad on and went back to lay down in bed. about an hour later I felt like I had to urinate again, so I did, and I got the same red tinge. this happened once more before my boyfriend had to get up for work in the morning. I went back to sleep finally and woke up later in the day. when I woke up I felt nausiated, gassy, slightly bloated and generally ‘off’ like I know somethings different. I read about ‘implantation bleeding’ on the internet later friday evening and I’m curious if maybe thats whats going on with me. I found it difficult to eat anything on friday, so I went to my boyfriend’s mother (my close confident) and she had me take a pregnancy test late friday night (dispite the fact I know you’re suppose to use first morning urine). it came back negative, I went to bed, but I woke up saturday feeling the same way. my boyfriend made dinner on saturday and I found myself hungry for the mashed potatos, until I started to eat it and halfway threw i couldn’t bring myself to finish it without wanting to throw up. (and I had the problem earlier in the day with easy mac and cheese). that night I believe I had a little bit more spotting, but I’m not entirely sure because my bathroom light is crappy. I’ve felt the same nausia and the like ever since friday, with nausia comming and going. I BELIEVE I’m meant to have my period right now, but I haven’t gotten it yet. (my cousin and I are usually at about the same time, with one of us starting then the other joining in halfway threw, and she finished hers yesterday). I took a home pregnancy test again when I woke up and its negative. I’ve been reading dozens and dozens of websites trying to figure out if whats up with me. should I go ahead and make a doctor appointment or just wait a few more days and test again?
September 3rd, 2007 at 12:53 pm
Jennilyn,
It probably wouldn’t hurt to do both. Pregnancy tests are different so you would want one that is accurate early in your missed period. Going to the doctor is a good idea as well, if the home test does show you are pregnant you will need to go anyway, but if you are not you will want to get checked out to see what else may be going on.
September 3rd, 2007 at 10:12 pm
the test I’d used before was the ‘Fact Plus’ early testing one (I used it both times). when should I wait to test again? Wednesday? Friday? Is there another brand of home pregnancy tests that you recomend?
September 4th, 2007 at 7:15 am
Jennilyn,
Just be sure to read the label and make sure that the test you use is accurate for the time in your cycle that you are testing. As far as when to test that is up to you, you could also call your doctor and get a recommendation from them.
September 27th, 2007 at 7:35 am
hay i dont know how to star this but i bee havin my period, my period comes on the 26 every mothly but this time it came 20 for 2 time but this time my period was for 2 dayz that all and every time i get pain on my somtle and i get headache everymoring when i wake up i want to my doctor she said notthing is wrog with me and i get tesr 2 i test my self and it show me - what would i do please help me
September 27th, 2007 at 11:13 am
Michelle,
If you doctor recommended that you take a test I would do that. If you have more questions I would talk to your doctor.
October 16th, 2007 at 11:33 am
I’m on the birth control pill, and i’ve been on it for a while now. But I missed 2 days in the first week of my pack. I thought i was ok and then i started spotting. My boyfriend and i didnt use protection on the 2nd day i forgot the pill, and havn’t since then. is there any chance i can get pregnant? and if there is a chance, i’m not suppose to get my period for another 3/4ths of a month… how early can i take a test?
October 16th, 2007 at 7:18 pm
Jessica,
The birth control pill is not 100% effective, close but not quite, especially if you miss a pill or two. I would recommend reading the label on the pregnancy test, I believe 5 days before your missed period is the earliest you can test.
October 19th, 2007 at 8:30 am
ok, here is my dilemma. i have never missed a period. i get it every 28 days give or take a day and have never ever been more than 3-4 days late. i am now 7 days late and bloated, very sore and dark breasts, tired, severe cramps for 10 days. I keep running to the bathroom to pee and expecting to find blood..but nothing. the dilemma? i had a tubal ligation over 12 years ago. i was 23 at the time. my periods have been fairly regular for a few years now..i know i ovulated around the 30th of september and i DID have alot of unprotected sex with my boyfriend. it is now October 19th. could i be pregnant?
October 19th, 2007 at 10:39 am
Stacie,
I would recommend taking a pregnency test.
October 21st, 2007 at 2:28 pm
Ok, I so I had unprotected sex with my fiance (pull out method) about a week before my period. I got my period on Oct. 12th and it lasted about 5 days, but was fairly light compared to normal. I have been experiencing some slight possible pregnancy symptoms for about a week now. (Light headed, mildly nautious, slightly swollen breasts, and constipation) I have taken 2 pregnancy tests and they both said negative. Could I still be pregnant? Obviously I know I should make an apt. with a doctor, but I am in the process of getting insurance. So for now I am just trying to sort this out as much as I possibly can.
The symptoms I have are generally in the morning through the early afternoon. Ihaveben feeling ok at night. Ok..I think that does it. Any advice or thoughts would be greatly appreciated!
October 22nd, 2007 at 7:20 am
Jennie,
My recommendation would be to either go to your doctor or a clinic to get a blood test if you think you are pregnant and getting false negatives on the home pregnancy tests.
October 24th, 2007 at 9:34 pm
I am 37 and mother of 3. I had a tubal 4yrs. ago and have been normal ever since. Well, I have been experiencing some symptoms recently that have me confused. I have bleeding gums, fatigue, tender breasts, mild backaches and headaches, facial breakouts, frequent urination and bloating. I had a normal period this month but had sex several times before and after (my symptoms began about a week before period). I have taken 2 pregnancy tests, both negative. Can anything else be causing such symptoms or am I suddenly crazy? It’s almost like I can’t convince myself I’m not pregnant. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
October 25th, 2007 at 7:17 am
Lisa,
I would recommend a trip to the doctor to get checked out.
October 28th, 2007 at 7:49 pm
Hello I had a molar pregnancy 10 months ago and was told not to get pregnant for an entire year. I am due for my period around the 29-3 in the month reguarly. Well I’ve been under a lot of stress, which I believe caused my period to be late- came on the 9th this month, it only lasted 2 days tho. To be honest I didnt start the pill on time, because I was a little confused. I feel sick to my belly in the AM, can smell more then usual, crave certain foods, and my chest is a little sore. I took a PT 4days after I stopped my period- was that too early? Could I be recieving a false negavtive? What are the chances of me conceiving this past month? And if I am pregnant, since it hasnt been a year- but I’ve been in the clear now for 6mths!- would the baby be at risk for being a molar again? I cant ever go through that again. Please help, please.
October 29th, 2007 at 6:30 am
Deanne,
I would recommend that you talk to your doctor.
Lisa
October 29th, 2007 at 1:25 pm
my period comes between the 29 to the first of the month reguarly. Well I’ve been under a lot of stress, which I believe caused my period to be late- came on Oct 9th this month, lasting only 2 days, my friends said it could just be stress that messed it up, I say it could be possibly implantation spotting? To be honest I didnt start the pill on time, because I was a little confused about why it lasted as short as it did. I feel sick to my belly but never vomit, can smell(which I normally cant), crave foods that I normally don’t (like milk, and steak), and my chest is sore alittle and on top of all that I have headaches and just “feel” pregnant. I took a PT 4days after I stopped my period- was that too early? Could I be recieving a false negavtive? How long should I wait to be tested again? Can these symptoms just be in my head?
October 29th, 2007 at 1:34 pm
My period is regular, except this month it was alittle off. Normally I get my period towards the end of every month/ to the first week in a month. I got my period on the 15 of Sept., lasted five days. Then I got it Oct 9, lasting only 2 days. Which I thought was due to stress, but after I read about implantation spotting- or actually that any difference in your period can be a sign that your prego, I questioned it. I ended up taking a PT approx 4 days after my period ended (Oct 14) recieving a negative. Im curious if it could have been a false negative. Im actually hoping that it was. Im gonna be honest I have had some symptoms that are alarming- headaches, tiredness, moody, sore chest, upset stomach (never thrown up), crave food I normally dont eat (milk, steak, etc) have a hightened smell (which I hardly can smell period) & just “feel” prego. I no these can be symptoms of an upcoming period too- but what are the odds that I might be prego?
October 29th, 2007 at 4:11 pm
Lilly,
There is a chance of becoming pregnant any time you have unprotected sex. There is no way to know for sure if you are pregnant just based on your symptoms, you have to get a positive pregnancy test, either at home or at the doctor’s office.
October 30th, 2007 at 5:54 pm
what about my period only lasting 2 days? is that normal
October 30th, 2007 at 7:25 pm
Ok, here it goes. I have not had my period since June, now it is not abnormal for me to skip two possibly three months before getting my period. I have taken about four pregnancy tests since June, that is also when i stopped taking the pill, all of them were negative. I now have been feeling “off” for almost a week now. Nausea, but never throwing up. Dull aching headache constantly, my left breast is swollen but not the right. My pants are feeling tight. And I have been breaking out with achne, I didn’t ever breakout this bad as a teenager, oh yeah and these annoying little black hairs have been popping up under my chin. I took and blood test today and I will get the results tomorrow I just wanted to know what someone else thought. My husband knows that I am not taking the pill and we haven’t been using any protection or pulling out. I have always been told that I would know if I was pregnant or not but I have never been pregnant so how would I know?
October 31st, 2007 at 6:24 am
Lilly,
Unfortunately I am not a doctor so I can’t answer that for you. I would recommend calling or going in to see your doctor.
October 31st, 2007 at 6:26 am
Erika,
Some women say they get a feeling and just know, but that isn’t the case for everyone by any means. You’ll know when you get those test results back, other than that there is no way to know for sure.
October 31st, 2007 at 12:59 pm
Hey Erika,
The symptoms you’re having could be just about any hormonal shift, not just pregnancy. I had the same exact things happening and it turned out I had PCOS. But there’s other things it could be, or it could just be nothing. I don’t know your age, but my doctor said most women go through shifts around ages 27 and 30-31 also. Sometimes getting acne like teenagers, and also some people suddenly get allergies when they never had those issues before.
November 3rd, 2007 at 5:22 am
hi i had unprotected nine and eleven days after my period about the thirteen day i felt sick after i have eaten every thing that day and the eleven day i have a pain under my stomach from that day is it a posibility that i can be pregnant.
November 3rd, 2007 at 6:30 pm
Jacqueline,
Any time you have unprotected sex there is a chance of getting pregnant. You can’t tell from symptoms alone if you are pregnant, as all pregnancy symptoms can be signs of something else as well. The best thing to do is see if you miss your period, if you do take a pregnancy test.
November 5th, 2007 at 5:28 pm
Hello I have a question- I really believe that I am pregnant. I have multiple symptoms & am late by a few days- 5. I have taken 2 different home PT and both came up negative. Is there any possiblity that I am infact pregnant, even though I haven’t gotten a positive?
November 6th, 2007 at 1:54 am
I have symptoms that Im pregnant- tender breast, food cravings, tiredness, hightened smell, nausea, headaches, emotional, etc. No period yet- 6 days late. I’ve taken 3 HPT all NO. Should I schedule for a blood test? My last period was for only 2 days & 1 day heavy 1 day very light then gone. Im confused, & scared if it can be a ecoptic pregnancy or not. Im not sure why I’d have one, but you never no
November 6th, 2007 at 6:51 am
Rachel,
Home pregnancy tests are pretty accurate, although it is possible on occasion to get a false negative. I would recommend, if you still think you are pregnant after the negative home tests, that you make an appointment with your doctor and get the blood test done.
November 6th, 2007 at 6:52 am
Denise,
Yes, I would definitely recommend going to your doctor for the blood test. That way if you aren’t pregnant you can talk to your doctor about what the symptoms maybe.
November 6th, 2007 at 11:12 pm
hi heres my problem i got my tubes cut tied and burned nov 27th thius year ive had my period every month like clock work i missed so far for october ive never missed a period except when i got pregnant all 3 other times noone takes me serious since i got my tubes done but i am concerned i took a test about a week ago it was neg although it was just 1 dollar test im not sure how accurate it was i dont believe i have any pregnancies syptoms but its hard to tell im always tired but i also have three kids a 5yr old a 3yr old and a 1yr old i have somewhat sore breast and discharge which isnt very unusual for me please help im tired of being ignored.
November 7th, 2007 at 6:51 am
Jessica,
I would recommend making an appointment with your doctor. You can talk to him about your missed period and other symptoms. They can do a pregnancy test on you and if you are not pregnant you will be able to talk to them about what your symptoms may be from. I always say when in doubt call your doctor, they are the experts.
November 8th, 2007 at 1:57 pm
I had unprotected sex on Sunday it is now Monday and I woke up sick to my stomach,I went to eat cereal and got heartburn and I am bloated and gassy.Does that mean I am pregnant?
November 13th, 2007 at 11:32 am
i am 17 and i live with my boyfriend we have been together for 2 yrs and i was late for a month and a half i have done 2 testd and both have shown negitive!!! i got my preiod a mon and 2 weeks later i have alot of the symptoms this is all to much to handle what dod i do
November 13th, 2007 at 8:07 pm
Shawna,
I would recommend that you go see your doctor. The symptoms for pregnancy are also often symptoms of other problems as well. It is best to checked out to make sure nothing is wrong. They can also do a blood test to test for pregnancy which is more accurate than the urine home tests.
December 8th, 2007 at 7:39 pm
Its now December 12th and I haven’t had my period since October 6th! I had unprotected sex at the end of Aug. Im 27 and have been traveling and living in a foreign country where I didin’t have electricity. I went to the chemist and bought two home pregancy tests. Both results were negative. Although, the tests looked cheap.
I feel bloated, and occasional nausea in the morning and sometimes at night too. I can see my breasts are swelling. I’m going to try and find a family planning clinic on monday. A pregancy test would pick up the hormone after three months, wouldn’t it?
December 9th, 2007 at 10:20 am
Emily,
Yes, a pregnancy test, if completed correctly would pick up the pregnancy hormone. If the home tests you used were out of date or not used properly it is possible to get a false negative. Your best bet is probably to get a blood test done at a clinic.
Good luck with everything.
January 3rd, 2008 at 11:45 am
hi ya im onli 14 and ive had all the simptons im reli scared but i read that u should wait 2 week till you have missed a period im onli a week late for my period would it still work correctly ??? plz w.b ive bin crying 4 days about it xxx
January 3rd, 2008 at 7:31 pm
Leanne,
There are tests on the market that are accurate 5 days before you miss your period. When I got pregnant with my daughter I tested a few days after my missed period and got accurate results. Given your age you may want to consider going to your doctor to get tested though so you will have someone to talk to and who can give you some advise. Best of luck to you.
January 7th, 2008 at 3:55 am
hi several days after my period in november ive had sex with my boyfriend (pull out method) and twice i had slight bleeding. i thought i was getting my period. i did take a pregnancy test but it showed negative. i got my period on the 17th last month but it was not as heavy as usual and ended a day early(my periods usually last 6-7days) before i got my period last month i did feel weird..my breasts hurt i feel queasy now and then and because of that i lose my appetite..recently i was watching the movie nine months and even though i have seen it before i cried a little this time…and i also noticed that i get upset with people close to me like my mother or my boyfriend
plz advice
January 7th, 2008 at 12:39 pm
Caroline,
You could always take another home pregnancy test if you still think you might be pregnant. You may have tested too early the last time and also it is possible to get a false negative. You could also go to your doctor to get tested that way if you aren’t pregnant they can try to figure out what else might be going on.
January 12th, 2008 at 2:00 pm
ok… i may be stressing over nothing, i still have 6 days until my period.. however, i have had several early signs of pregnancy, late night i was out and started to feel faint… came home and felt sick but never was able to vomit, i feel lazy because i dont feel like working or get out of the bed in the mornings, i have not wanted to eat due to the smells, and when i do eat it makes me sick. i have terrible head and back aches also cramping. i seem ill to others around me and have crying over the littlest things, i know it sounds like PMS but i just feel “pregnant” i did have unprotected(pull out) on dec 31, i have noticed these signs over the last week… when should i take a home pregnancy test, if my period is normally on or around the 17th?
thanks
January 13th, 2008 at 9:46 am
Kayla,
Read the label on the home pregnancy tests at the store. I believe there are early testing kits that can detect the pregnancy hormone 5 days before your missed period. They do become more accurate after your missed period but you can try one of the early testing kits. You can also go to your doctor to get tested as well.
January 23rd, 2008 at 2:50 am
Hey, I am presently on birth control and i took a pregnancy test, it turned out negative. Althought, my period is now 2 days late and im stressing alot, can stress push back a period?
January 23rd, 2008 at 8:38 am
Carol,
There are a lot of things that can cause a period to be late and stress is one of them. If you are concerned I would recommend going to your doctor. They can administer a pregnancy test to see if you are indeed pregnant, and if not then they can try to figure out what else may be going on.
January 23rd, 2008 at 6:43 pm
So…I’m wondering if I might be pregnant. I am 21 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We have been having sex for a few months now. We ALWAYS use a condom very carefully for protection, but I am not on the pill. The last time I had a period was late November. I missed a period for December and maybe will for January (could have 2 missed periods). My period has always been irregular and it is not unusual for me to miss one. Other than missing a period, I have had absolutely NO other pregnancy symptoms. I don’t know if the fact that I am stressing out over being pregnant is causing a delayed period. I switched from an evening shift to a day shift at work. I also started a new semester at college. I also have been traveling a lot in the past month. My body can be pretty wacky sometimes…I am thinking of getting a pregnancy test, just to stop my worrying. Your input is greatly appreciated!
January 23rd, 2008 at 7:00 pm
Lauren,
Since you aren’t having any signs of pregnancy and your period is usually irregular you probably aren’t pregnant. However, it probably wouldn’t hurt to take a pregnancy test just to be safe.
January 31st, 2008 at 10:43 pm
I have pcos. I do not have regular periods at all. However, about three weeks ago, I thought I started my period. I woke up and had to use the restroom and there was a tinge of blood on the tp. That was all it was. Now, I have lower back cramp like things that I can’t explain, I have been nauseated all freakin day and I feel rough. I really would like to be pregnant, but I’m just not really wanting to have another negative. Any suggestions?
February 1st, 2008 at 12:42 pm
Bebe,
I would recommend taking a pregnancy test. I know it can be hard to see that negative when you really want to be pregnant. At least by taking the test you will know if it is pregnancy or something else that you need to get checked out. I wish you the best of luck.
February 14th, 2008 at 5:31 pm
Ok… So I was diagnosed with PCOS on Jan. 10th… The doctor started me on provera the same day to start my period since I hadn’t had one since August… I started my period on Jan. 21st… They started me on birthcontrol on Jan. 27… Around Feb. 4 I had a slightly pinkish colored discharge that I only saw when I wiped… Well around the Feb. 12, I started feeling nauseous and exhausted. My breast are now slightly swollen and tender. I crave certain foods and because of smells, some foods make me want to vomit… I took a pregnancy test yesterday morning, which I know was too soon… I souldn’t get my period until the 18th if it comes… I was wonder if a blood test at the doctor’s office could tell me sooner if I’m pregnant or not?
Thank you,
Cari
February 14th, 2008 at 7:20 pm
Cari,
I believe that the blood test at the doctor’s office can tell you sooner than home pregnancy tests as it requires less of the pregnancy hormone to be present. I would definitely talk to your doctor.
February 19th, 2008 at 3:20 am
Hi Lisa i wonder if you can help me, i have been reading alot of info online about tubal ligation and pregnancys while you have your cords tied and its scary stuff because last year my cousin who had her tubes tied and a baby 4yrz after the procedure and now yet again is prgnant with her second child? Now im going onto my 4yrz with my tubal ligation and all my life i have had a full 7 dayz none stop hard out period alwayz 7dayz and to my amazement i finished 4 dayz to ealry which has freaked me out cause my friend when she knows she is preggy she has hers for 3dayz can you help me out i dont think im preggy but could there be a chance i am?
February 19th, 2008 at 9:19 am
Jewellz,
You can become pregnant even if you have your tubes tied. I would recommend taking a pregnancy test or going to your doctor to get checked out if you think you might be pregnant. Sometimes our cycles will change, even after they have been the same for years, so that could be what is happening too. The best thing to do is to talk to your doctor about your concerns.
February 19th, 2008 at 6:57 pm
Thank you Lisa will do and i will let you know what happens its good to have somone to ask these questions too and get ananswer in return thank you once again
February 21st, 2008 at 7:23 pm
Lisa,
I have a concern and I am hoping that you can help me out. I was supposed to get my period on the 12th of february, but I didn’t get it. I took two HPT’s. One when I was five days late and one at 8 days. Both tests were negative. The last time that my husband and I had sex was just a few days before my missed period. Would a missed period occur that quickly? Is it still too early to tell on an HPT? Could the tests be incorrect that early? I know that I am asking alot of questions, but I just want to make sure before I tell my husband.
February 22nd, 2008 at 10:36 am
Bell,
If you want to be sure before you say anything to your husband I would recommend going to your doctor to get tested. They can administer a blood test that is more accurate than the home pregnancy tests.
March 3rd, 2008 at 3:06 am
i have a question…i had got my period on the 23 of february and i only had it for 3 days…well my breast are still sore and its the 3rd of march…so i really dont no what the problem is…and before the 23 my breat hurt like a good 4 or 5 days before that…and now we are on the 3rd and im still sore!!!!!i honestly dont think i am pregant… and i dont have a docs appt until april 15 so i was jus wondering if anybody else has had this problem before..
March 5th, 2008 at 3:12 am
hi i havent missed my period but im due on in 4 days for past couple of days ive been feeling sick and got back ache and i feel really tired that i feel to sleep on the sofa for 5 mins last night but my kids woke me up could i be pregnant or could it be something else?
March 5th, 2008 at 9:04 am
Vicky,
If you think you might be pregnant I would take a home pregnancy test, or you could pay your doctor a visit just in case it is something else.
March 6th, 2008 at 11:25 am
HI!
I have a HUGE question! I had the Paraguard IUD since July 2005. I am very normal with my periods. February 2nd I had my normal period for about 7 days. Then on February 13th I got the IUD removed by my doctor. I had a little spotting, but I know that this is normal with IUD removal. Now that it is March I was supposed to have my period around the 1st. And today I would be in my 6th day of my period. Still no signs of my period! I have taken 4-5 HPT before my excpected period and they all have come back negative. My last test was on March 5th. I do not know if I am testing too early? I called my doctor and the nurse told me to take tests on the 5th and 12th. I have been very tired, but that is all that I have noticed besides the missed period. My husband and I have had sex serval times after the IUD was removed. We would really be excited to be pregnant, but I am so confused as to why my period has not started and the tests are negative. I have one son who was born June 2005. And I knew when I concieved with him and we waited a week after to take the HPT after the “excpected” period it was positive. Have I jumped to conclusions? My doctor told me when he took out the IUD that I am back to fertility as soon as he took it out. It would be great to be pregnant! But if I am not and having missed my period will that cause me not to ovulate this month? What is going on? Should I wait for the next time my period would be and see what would happen? I am starting to get angry about having the IUD. I don’t know maybe it is all in my head. I have done a lot of searching online. I noticed that some days I seem to be a little nauseaed, but that is it.
Thanks!
March 6th, 2008 at 2:06 pm
Daphne,
I don’t know why you would be missing your periods. I would recommend talking to your doctor about all your questions. A doctor is going to be best equipped to answer the many questions you have.
March 7th, 2008 at 12:14 pm
I had sex last week, and recently i’ve been feeling sick all the time.
My stomach keeps cramping and i’ve had a little bit of brown coloured discharge.
Could i be pregnant? :S
And could the signs be coming this early?
March 8th, 2008 at 9:15 am
Rachel,
Anytime you have unprotected sex there is a chance of becoming pregnant. Some women do seem to experience pregnancy signs very early, but I don’t think that is the norm. I would recommend taking a pregnancy test when you can.
March 9th, 2008 at 7:05 am
i have sex a lot, but its always protected. For the past two months i have gotten my period when i was suppose to but it only lasted 2 or 3 days. Every time i had sex the condom didn’t break and it was always protected. could i be pregnant?
March 11th, 2008 at 4:44 am
Hi there,
I wanted to ask something. I had sex with my fiancee last Friday. I am on pill for over 2 years now and didn`t get pregnant so far. Just recently I have a strange feeling that I might be. I am being tired for a while now and I had a pain im my abdomen like 2 days ago for the whole evening and it was really annoying. Sometimes I feel like I have got a little movement im my tummy and it actually feels nice. I can`t have a proper poo (sorry for details,honetly) for like 3 days and feel bloated and feel like I am getting bigger and feel I need to eat more..my period is due this week. Could I be pregnant even if I am on pill and have period every month (cause I know that this is actually not real period, it`s just like fake one, is that right?). Thanks for help…
March 11th, 2008 at 10:11 am
Lucy,
You can get pregnant when on the pill, although it is a pretty effective form of birth control. If you think you might be pregnant I would recommend taking a pregnancy test, or you might want to head to the doctor in case it is something else.
March 14th, 2008 at 12:54 pm
Hello.My name is laresha,im 15years old I just started getting sexualy active about 3 months ago..I been with my boyfriend for 7 months now,an i missed my period,its been 5 days now,I didnt take an test yet because im not sure if im pregnant or yet,but ive been getting morning sickness,bad headach,an terrible stomch pains.I dont know what to do,an im not sure…
March 14th, 2008 at 1:34 pm
Laresha,
Since you are so young I would recommend going to your doctor for a pregnancy test. That way you will have a professional to talk to about your options and what to expect, etc. Don’t go through this alone, make sure you have someone to talk to and to help you make the right decisions for you.
March 20th, 2008 at 11:03 am
OKAE. SO I MISSED MY PERIOD. I GOT MY FIRST PERIOD ON THE FIRST WEEK OF JAN. AND MY SECOND PERIOD WAS ON THE SECOND WEEK OF FEB. THIS MONTH (MAR.) MY PERIOD DIDN’T COME. TODAY IS THE 20TH. (THURS.) AND ON SUNDAY NIGHT… I SPOTTED A LITTLE. I DIDN’T THINK NOTHING ABOUT IT BECAUSE I THOUGHT MY PERIOD WAS GOING TO START, BUT IT DIDN’T. I WAS CLEAN AFTER THAT DAY. NO BLEEDING. AND I SPOTTED ONLY THAT ONE DAY AND THAT WAS IT. ALSO, I WAS FEELING A LITTLE MOODY EVERY NOW AND THEN, MY LOWER STOMACHE WOULD SOMETIMES FEEL BLOATED OR LIKE IF I WAS GETTING CRAMPS, & SOMETIMES MY BACK HURTS. BUT, THE THING THAT WORRIED ME WAS THAT I HAVE NEVER IN MY LIFE SPOTTED BEFORE. ME AND MY FIANCE HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX ALL THE TIME BUT NOTHING EVER HAPPENS. COULD THERE BE A POSSIBILITY THAT MAYBE I’M PREGO?? I NEED SOME ANSWERS PLEASE!!
March 20th, 2008 at 11:26 am
Joselyn,
I would recommend taking a home pregnancy test. Anytime you have unprotected sex there is a chance of getting pregnant.
March 20th, 2008 at 1:33 pm
I’M GOING NEXT WEEK TO GET MYSELF TESTED… BUT COULD THERE BE A POSSIBILITY??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
March 20th, 2008 at 1:49 pm
I’M GOING TO THE CLINIC NEXT WEEK… BUT, COULD THERE BE A POSSIBILITY THAT I MIGHT BE PREGO.????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
March 20th, 2008 at 2:54 pm
Joselyn,
As I mentioned in my previous response, anytime you have unprotected sex there is a chance of getting pregnant. Since you stated that you and your boyfriend have unprotected sex all the time, yes there is a chance you might be pregnant. You won’t be able to know for sure until you get tested.
March 21st, 2008 at 11:13 am
OKAE. THANKS.
March 23rd, 2008 at 9:09 am
Hello,
I have always been a 28 day cycler. I have missed my period this month by 6 days, but feel systoms of pregnancy. I took 2 tests that show negative now. Since Friday (@ 6 days late) night, I have experienced severe abdominal cramping with slight blood. Now it is Sunday @ 8 days late, breasts are very sore, slight bleeding in the a.m. which has stopped, but still have cramping feeling. Pregnancy test this am indicated negative. How do I know for sure that I am not 4 weeks pregnant if the tests still shows negative? I also have severe endometriosis, and have been told that it would be a miracle if I did become pregnant.
Thank you so much for any advice!
March 23rd, 2008 at 11:09 am
Hello,
I have been trying to conceive with my husband for 10years. I have severe endometriosis and have been told it would be a miracle if I were to conceive. I have just missed my period, and am always 28 days. On Fri. this past week, which would have been day 32 I began having severe abdominal cramping, dirreah(lasting 3days) slight spot cont. with yesterday, being Sat. a slightly more than spotting of blood. This am, (Sun) I have had less cramping and only a slight spot of bleeding again. I have taken 2 preg.tests, both with morning urine, and both showing negative. My breasts are very sore, I have a heightened sensitivity to smell, and feel somewhat nauseated. I am not sure what all this means. I am hoping that we have conceived, but even though I have some symtoms, I am afraid that because the tests are negative that I shouldn’t get my hopes up.
Could I be pregnant and too soon to tell, or could I have possibly miscarried? I have never been pregnant before, am in my 40’s so I really don’t know what to expect.
Thank you for any information!
March 23rd, 2008 at 12:10 pm
CJ,
I would recommend talking to your doctor. They can do a blood pregnancy test for you.
March 27th, 2008 at 5:19 pm
Hi I had unprotected sex march 17th and I ovulated either march 19 or 20. My last period was march 3. Then I had unprotected sex 22nd. For the past week I’ve been having a weird pain on my right ovary side, sore and swollen breasts, increased appetite, and super tired. I tested today (march 27) and it was negative. Do you think it was to early to test?
March 27th, 2008 at 7:39 pm
Nicole,
It may be, it would depend on the type of test you used and where you are in your cycle. If you still think you may be pregnant after getting a negative on a home pregnancy test you can always get a blood test done by your doctor.
March 28th, 2008 at 8:14 am
Thanks so much Lisa, Well all last night I had the same dull ache on my right side, and this morning when I got out of the shower and was brushing my teeth I got a hot flash and it continued until I finished changing my clothes. What do you personally think? I know you’re not a doctor but an opinion would be nice. How long would you recommend me wait before I test again?
March 28th, 2008 at 12:33 pm
Nicole,
If I were you I would probably head to the doctor. I think it is always a good idea to get checked out if you don’t know what is going on. Unfortunately when it comes to the symptoms of pregnancy they are often similar to the symptoms of many other things. I wish you all the best.
April 16th, 2008 at 10:49 am
MY BOYFRIEND AND I HAVE BEEN TRYING FOR A KID NOW. BUT, THERE’S A PROBLEM. WE BOTH SMOKE WEED. WE KNOW THAT IF I DO GET PREGNANT, WE WILL BOTH STOP SMOKING WEED. BUT, HOW COME I’M NOT GETTING PREGNANT? IS IT BECAUSE OF THE WEED?
I DON’T WANT YOU OR NO-BODY TO JUDGE ME BECAUSE OF THIS, BECAUSE ONLY GOD CAN AND I KNOW WHAT I’M DOING. PLEASE HELP ME WITH THIS ANSWER: HOW CAN I GET PREGNANT?????????????
April 16th, 2008 at 1:56 pm
Divine,
I would recommend talking to your doctor. He/She will be able to talk to you about what effects smoking weed may have on your fertility as well as try to determine if there is anything else going on that may be impacting your ability to get pregnant.
April 16th, 2008 at 11:42 pm
i dont know what is going on but im on the pill,my period is supposed to start wed night and end sunday afternoon,but for the past couple months,it has stopped early!
at the end of march i got it wed night,but it stopped fri morning! what is going on??
April 17th, 2008 at 7:24 am
Jessica,
You should probably talk to your doctor if you are concerned about your periods.
April 19th, 2008 at 6:56 am
my husband & i have just decided to start trying for our 1st baby. last satrday i know that i ovulated (very intune w/ my body, and had severe cramping). we had sex several times the week before, but my husband was a bit overwhelmed and could not really complete the task. on sunday though, (the day after i ovulated) but possibly a bit more that 24 hours after ovulation, we were able to do the deed. i am not sure if there have really been obvious symptoms since, except that i have been getting headaches (which is very unusual for me) and a bit more tired than usual. could i be pregnant even though we had sex more than 24 hours after ovulation? it would probably have been about 36 hours after?
April 19th, 2008 at 8:47 am
Allison,
Sperm typically live up to 48 hours, so it is possible to get pregnant in your scenario. However, I would caution you not to get your hopes up just in case. It can take time to get pregnant. If you still think you may be pregnant and miss your period I would suggest taking a home pregnancy test or go to see your doctor.
April 21st, 2008 at 10:55 am
hi,before i had my period, I had all the clssic signs of pregnancy,backpain,bloating,frequent urine,thirstyness,tingling in my nipples,sore breasts,dizzyness nausea,tired ness,increased apetite,salivation(2 days)took the test,i came out negative.tyen my period came a week early and it was the normal flow….I still have all the clssic signs! help!
April 21st, 2008 at 1:05 pm
Chyna,
You could go to your doctor for blood test if you still think you might be pregnant. The blood test is much more accurate than the home tests.
April 27th, 2008 at 5:08 pm
hi, can someone please help me? i had my period on april 6 2008, i ovulated on april 20 2008, my husband and i had sex on these following days 13 twice,14,15,16,18,19. on wednesday i have been having signs that i could be pregnant like, sore nipples, mood swing, have pain in my pelvis area, backaches, have been drinking more than usual. today i was doing the laundry,sweeping and mopping the kitchen and dining room floor, vacum the living room when i was done with the vacuming the floor i had not energy. i normal can do more than that. when i use the bathroom, my pee looks clear and when i wipe it looks like milk. my period is due may 4. could i be pregnant?
April 27th, 2008 at 5:19 pm
i want to add some more a couple a days ago i had hot and cold flashes while i was sitting at the computer. please help me. when should i take the test. should i take the test on may 10
April 28th, 2008 at 8:33 am
Jenny,
You should read the label on the home pregnancy tests and take the test when appropriate for your cycle. Or you can go to your doctor for a blood test.
April 28th, 2008 at 5:31 pm
i had sex on the 29th and 30th of april about 3/4 times, and then agen on the followin weekend on the 4th and 5th of april about 3/4 times, i did not use a condom and me and my partner used the withdrawel method, i was ovulatin on the 1st to the 3rd of april, i am 11 days late and have took a pregnancy test 3 days ago and it was negative but still no sign of periods. ive been feelin quite sick and reely tired and feels like i have period symptoms. cood i be pregnant?
April 28th, 2008 at 7:04 pm
Lou,
It is possible to get a false negative on a home pregnancy test. If you still think you maybe pregnant after getting the false negatives you could go to your doctor or a clinic to get a blood test. They are more accurate.
May 2nd, 2008 at 11:54 am
Hiya, right i feel dead embarrased coming on this but my last period was on the 28th march its different every month some months its every 31 days sometimes 30 sometimes 29 but dif every month, i had unprotected sex on 11th 12th 19th 20th april i think…my periods late ive done a test every day since sat 26th april maybe twice a day all different brands so in total about 8 or 9 tests all negative, went to this family planning clinic yesterday they did one it was negative but ive been proper stressin about it since sat morning making myself feel physically sick worrying about it no symptoms everythings still the same, my stomach feels a bit weird sometimes but i think its cause im just tense all day worrying, i get a few headaches but ive not eaten much at all from worry i started a new job recently an i was worried about that too but ive never been this late from worrying before, im just dead scared cause ive been reading stuff on the net about tests bein negative until your like 2 or 3 months pregnant i really dont want to be pregnant but im positve i must be if anyones got any advice id be grateful thanks
May 3rd, 2008 at 7:29 pm
The blood tests can detect the pregnancy hormone very early on and are rarely wrong. If you are still worried about it you should go back to the clinic or to your doctor and talk to someone about it.
May 5th, 2008 at 12:32 am
im 15 years old..and this is new to me. I havent had my period in 2 months.my stomach hurts like im cramping and it hurts like were i button my pants. My chest hurts with a slight pain every now and then. my back hurts like no tommrow. I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend like 4 months ago.but i had sex with somebody else at the beginning of april. i havent told my parents becuz im scared im just a little girl.i need help.please
May 5th, 2008 at 7:32 am
Tayla,
I know this is probably pretty scary for you. Is there an adult you can trust who will help you? I would recommend going to an adult you can trust and asking them to take you to the doctor so you can get tested and figure what to do next. I wish you all the best and hope everything works out for you.
May 7th, 2008 at 9:52 am
ok i had sex 3 days before my period and the condom broke and we didn’t know till we were done. i started my period 3 days later but now that this is my last day of my period i feel so tired my boobs are swollen and my back hurts. i feel sick but i don’t vomit. i get headaches more than usual. is there no way i could be preganant if i had my period? or could i?
May 7th, 2008 at 4:04 pm
Jessica,
Some women do get their period even when they are pregnant. There is a chance of getting pregnant anytime you have unprotected sex. You could get tested at your doctor’s office or take a home pregnancy test.
May 15th, 2008 at 8:17 pm
hi, i got my first depo shot at the beggining of march. for the past month i have been having pregnancy symptoms like tender nipples lower stomach and back pains, always tired and always hungry. could i be pregnant or is it just the shot? i have only been on it for 3 months and i had unprotected sex starting the day after i got the shot. can you please help me?
May 15th, 2008 at 8:54 pm
i had unprotected sex and i dont no if my partner had “cum” inside of me becauz i didnt felt anything…
I ask him and he said no, but jamaican men are liers so i dont no whether if i should trust him or not…
Anyway i missed my period for about 1month and 2weeks now but i took 7 pregnancy test and they all says negavite…
I went to the doctor and he said that im okay but i feel as if i am pregnant becauz my beast are swollen and im vomitting and other symptoms too….
My email address is STACIASUETANYA@HOTMAIL.COM
I need help becauz im just 19 and next year ill be doing my cxc exams and i need 4 more subjects inorder to work….
Even thought i feel like i am pregnant, My aunt keeps saying that im fretting too much thats why my period wont start AND THAT MY MINE IS PLAYING TRICKS ON ME…
PLEASE I CAME ON THE SITE FOR HELP AND ID REALLY APPRECIATE IT IF YOU REPLY ASAP….
Im here seriously fretting my ass off!!!
I NEED TO FINISH SCHOOL FIRST….
PLEASE ADD MY EMAIL ADDRESS….
May 16th, 2008 at 5:52 am
Ashley,
I would recommend talking to your doctor. I know that those shots, and many other forms of birth control, can cause pregnancy like symptoms.
May 16th, 2008 at 6:02 am
Stacia,
I understand that you’re very worried, but if the doctor said you’re not pregnant than you probably aren’t. Did they do a blood test, those are very accurate and rarely false? If they didn’t do a blood test you could ask them to.
May 16th, 2008 at 2:39 pm
Wow thanx for replying, i didnt think that you would reply anyway No they did not take a blood test, only a urine test and its shows Negative plus i also took the test on my own several times (negative), the doctor also felt my belly…
I dont no why he did that…
If i am pregant i would 1 month and 2 weeks, im so scared… Oh man i doubt that ill be having sex after this experience…
TODAY AT SCHOOL I FELT DIZZY AND ALSO TODAY MY TEACHER ASK A QUESTION AND I RAISED MY HAND TO ANSWER but my breast was killing me… So i had to put down my hand…
May 16th, 2008 at 3:10 pm
Stacia i understand what your saying because i do have the same problem.
When i was 16 years old, i got pregnant and the test didn’t show positive until i was 4 weeks, the weeks before it keeps saying negative.
The MOM i have, trust me i had abort the child
(i feel so bad and i regret it now) but i did it because i was in school and the baby father did not want anything to do with OUR CHILD so i had to do it.
Plus my mom was very miserable and she told me that she will not help me so i panic and i didnt what i had to do.
Im currently 22 years old and my partner and i wants a child and we keep having unprotected sex but im almost 2 months pregnant and it keeps saying negative plus i went to the doctor and he says that im not pregnant, i feel like crying because i really want a child and i do think i am pregnant because im seeing the symptoms of pregancy, Im spitting, I wont eat, I can’t sleep, Im feeling pain in my belly, My breast hurts, I see red spots in my underwear but i also think im not because i had aborted a child and i feel like i cant have another child.
WHAT DO YOU THINK LISA MITCHELL?
DO YOU THINK THAT IT IS BECAUSE I CANT GET PREGNANT AGAIN?
May 16th, 2008 at 3:29 pm
Tavia,
You’re best bet is probably to talk to a doctor. They can try to determine if you are able to conceive or not. Plus, a doctor can be a great person to talk to about your concerns.
May 27th, 2008 at 7:04 am
Hi!!! I was wondering if you can help? My periods are late by 17 days and there is no sign of them. I have so many Symptoms that suggest that I am( such as: feeling really tired, sick, urinating frequently, head ache, cramps etc). I have had a couple of HPT but they have showed negative and I have went to the family planning clinic and their test is showing negative also. I asked the clinic about going to my doctors (for a blood test)but they said not to just to go back in two to three weeks if my period still hasn’t appeared. My partner and I have been trying to have a baby and we would both be delighted if I was. My questions is do you think it is still possible to be pregnant even though I am still showing negative? (please note that I haven’t been stressed or unwell lately)
May 27th, 2008 at 11:39 am
Amanda,
It is possible to get false negatives on the HPT, however, they are usually pretty accurate. The rate of false negatives goes up if you are testing too soon and you don’t have enough of the pregnancy hormone in your system to register. If you are really anxious to know I would suggest going in for the blood test, otherwise, just wait it out and if you still don’t get your period try the HPT again. Best of luck to you. I know it can be hard to wait when you are anxious to be pregnant.
May 28th, 2008 at 4:48 am
Thank you very much Lisa
x
June 4th, 2008 at 3:41 pm
I had unprotected(withdraw) sex and within two days my breast were sore, as the days passed they started to get bigger and soooo very sore. i don’t have regular periods, so i don’t have a missed period date. i have been in a very good mood since and very tired i was also been going the the bathroom alot(#2) i have taken three tests all neg, but my breasts have grown over a whole cup still sore nipples not darker but bumps are bigger. i’m now having to pee almost evey 30-40 min and watching my drink intake, tired all the time light headachs, little buldge, and starting to gain weight. sex on the 14th test on the 24th 28th and 30th did i test too soon i want to be pregnant, could i be tricking my brain to think i am? there is no other reason for my body changes.
June 5th, 2008 at 5:28 am
Crys,
Since you don’t have a regular cycle it would be hard to tell when to take a home pregnancy test. Most are not accurate until 5 days after your first missed period. Given that you don’t know when you period should be I would recommend going in for a blood test at your doctor’s office. These tests are much more accurate and can pick up the pregnancy hormone earlier than the urine tests can.
June 5th, 2008 at 8:44 pm
is it possible to be pregnant if i had sex and saw spotting the day after and my period starting like 2 days after and my period not finishing within the 5 day period? Also i have this pain in my lower stomach to the left( like to the left under my navel)….Should i take a pregnancy test even though i have an irregular cycle? Btw can you give me a list of tablets i can buy to get rid of the baby if i am pregnant?
June 6th, 2008 at 7:23 am
Sam,
I think you should talk to a doctor.
June 8th, 2008 at 6:44 am
hi ive taken clomid and now my period came for 2 days only what does it means?never been in this situation,past 2 days i felt dizzy what do you think guys was happening to me?
June 8th, 2008 at 10:55 am
Cindy,
I’ve heard that women tend to have unusual periods and symptoms when they start clomid. I would recommend talking to your doctor about what is normal, etc.
June 11th, 2008 at 3:08 pm
I just took a pregnency test and it came out possitive. This will be the second time I have become pregnant while on birth control. Is it possible to develope an emmunity to the pill and what are the odds of becoming pregnant twice while on birth control?
June 12th, 2008 at 5:06 am
Jazlyn,
No form of birth control is 100% effective so it is possible to become pregnant any time. I don’t believe it is possible to develop an immunity to birth control but I would talk to your doctor about it. Perhaps you need to be on a stronger form of the pill or whatever you are taking.
June 19th, 2008 at 11:03 am
Good Morning to all,
I am 39 years old have have two children 6-7 and thought we were finished having children.
I believe I am pregnant. I am not sure if I am asking a question or more venting. My husband and I are going through some tough times. Both between the two of us and financial. We are getting reading to sell our house and rent as we are struggling so much. I know I need to take a test but not sure I want to know the results. I will be 40 when the baby is born. I was already stressed out and this is just making me nuts. I should just be getting my period so do I wait a few more days and be stressed or do I take it and depending on the results be stressed. My family will have a heart attach. For the past few years I feel like my family has had to take care us and think I should be able to do this for my family and to add more to the mix. I work full time and part-time so there isn’t much more I can do. Stressed!!!!
June 20th, 2008 at 6:03 am
Sylvia,
It sounds like a stressful time for you. Sometimes it is easier just to get it over with so you’ll know the results and be able to go from there. Most tests are accurate once you have missed your period so you can probably take it any time. Best of luck to you. I’m sure it will all work out.
June 20th, 2008 at 4:50 pm
Does anyone ever experience lighter cramps about 4-7 days before starting? These feel like very light pressure cramps around the very top of the feminine area (what they refer to as the top part of the triangle?) I get these feelings just before my period in the time frame I mentioned. I got them, as usual, about 4 days before I was supposed to start. However, I never started. I’m now 3 days past. Could I be prego? I’m on Metformin bc I have PCOS….However, the PCOS isn’t bad and I have very regular periods.
June 20th, 2008 at 7:01 pm
Nicki,
The only way to know for sure is to take a pregnancy test. Some women never experience any early pregnancy symptoms. However, with PCOS the change in your cycle could be due to that as well.
June 21st, 2008 at 10:58 am
also, on day 28 (i usuallu start on day 28), I took a home pregnancy test. It said negative but I felt like I didn’t pee on it enough. I guess I should take another, but I’m afraid it will be negative too…..
June 21st, 2008 at 11:25 am
Nicki,
You could want a couple of days and then test again. The test is looking for the pregnancy hormone in your urine so there has to be enough of it in order to get a positive. I think they usually say that the tests are most accurate 5 days after your missed period. You could also go get a blood test at your doctor’s office. Those are much more accurate and they can detect the pregnancy hormone earlier.
July 8th, 2008 at 9:36 am
hi…i started my period about 2 weeks ago..and i just started yesterday again…july 7…is that bad???
July 8th, 2008 at 11:31 am
Stephanie,
I would recommend calling your doctor if you are concerned about it.
July 8th, 2008 at 4:06 pm
Hi, my name is Isabella and i am 18. I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 years and im kinda worried that i could be pregnant. I worry because i have the tried felling, bloating, abdomanal pains, slight bleeding, headachs, constipation and slight tenderness/swollen brests. But i have been on the Depo shot for 1 year. Im supposed to get my next shot the 27th of this month and im not because my dr is taking me off. im not really sure what to do but im trying not to stress about it. Please help me.
Thank you so much…
Isabella
July 8th, 2008 at 6:58 pm
Isabella,
I would recommend taking a home pregnancy test. You might also want to talk to your doctor, he/she can do a blood test and try to figure out what else may be causing your symptoms if it ends up that you are not pregnant.
July 11th, 2008 at 4:18 pm
I’ve been on ortho-novum for 6 months (I’ve been on some form of BC for over 2 years), Last month I missed one pill in the first week and took several pills at least 8 hours late in the second week. I’ve always had at least spotting and I’ve never had a period less than 2 days long, but this month I had nothing and had no period symptoms whatsoever. This has never happened before. I had unprotected sex with my bf twice, so I took a HPT after I was 7 days late and again this morning (I’m now 9 days late), both were negative, but I’ve been super tired, had to pee a ton (which is really abnormal for me) been bloated and hungry all the time even though I feel like I just ate. Is it possible that the tests are wrong?? I’m really hoping that I’m just being paranoid.
July 11th, 2008 at 4:21 pm
I forgot to add that a few days before I should have started my period I had this dull pain in my lower abdomen that I’ve never felt before.
July 11th, 2008 at 6:36 pm
Anistacia,
It is possible to get a false negative on a hpt, however, they are fairly accurate (usually about 95-99% accurate if administered correctly). If you still think you may be pregnant you could wait a few more days and test again, or, you could go to your doctor for a blood test.
July 15th, 2008 at 12:43 pm
Ok. I have always had an irregular period and my doctor put me on tri-sprintec a month ago to help regulate me. My last period was May 25th and I began taking my birth control on the 15th of June. I didn’t miss any pills although I did have a couple of times when I took them a couple of hours late. I did have sex with my boyfriend prior to going on the pill but, my doctor took a urine pregnancy test before I went on my birth control and it was negative. I am now on my third day of white pills in my first pack of pills, but still no sign of my period. I did have sex with my boyfriend on the 26th and 27th of June and in the earlier part of the month. both on the 26th and 27th and a couple of times before that he did not put on a condom for a while. I had been on antibiotics at the time of the 26th and 27th which I later found out could alter the effectiveness of my birth control. I went through a spell when I did felt bloated, but that has passed. then I went through a spell of not being able to sleep (which is very unusual for me) and then sleeping more than is normal for me. I have had a few times when I have had horrible tension headaches that seemed to come out of nowhere. I work in a restaurant and am on my feet for long periods of time and I have had a couple of dizzy spells and have come very near to fainting after work a couple of times. my breasts are not tender, and I have not had any cravings for food (unless you count not wanting any food). More recently I have been having stomach cramps similar to period cramps, but sharper and more severe, and I have had a couple of bouts of nausea. I should add that I do not usually get bad period cramps. I have noticed over the last few weeks that I have been going to the bathroom more than usual. I did have a UTI about two months ago but I was put on antibiotics and it was cleared up. then about a month ago I began to have symptoms of another UTI and I went back to the doctor. However my urine test came back with only trace amounts of bacteria (not enough to make me sick). Around the same time I also had some blood taken and it was found that my WBC was elevated to about five thousand more than it should have been, yet they could find nothing wrong with me to indicate why it was elevated. I have still been feeling like I have to pee all of the time and a couple of days ago I began to experience really bad cramps and a feeling like I had to pee but when I went to the bathroom I couldn’t and it was extremely painful. This came on very suddenly and in a couple of hours it disappeared, also very suddenly. I thought it might have been the beginnings of another UTI but the sudden onset and disappearance of the symptoms made me think twice. The night before this episode I came home from work feeling very nauseated and faint. I have continued to feel cramps and nausea and I have had no appetite for anything since then, but I have not had any problems urinating, although I have continued to need to pee more often than is normal. I should also mention that over the last few weeks I have been feeling very moody and emotional. as well as very quick to get upset for reasons which I can’t really say when asked why I am upset, which is very out of character for me. I looked at symptoms of pregnancy online and I took several online quizzes designed to tell you the probability that you might be pregnant and based on the results of those I decided to take a home pregnancy test. this morning I took a first response and it was negative.
These symptoms are not like anything I have experienced before. Am I just paranoid?
Is it still possible that I could be pregnant? Or could these things just be the side effects of the tri-sprintec or symptoms of a UTI?
July 15th, 2008 at 12:44 pm
p.s. I forgot to mention my best friend just found out she is pregnant a couple of weeks ago. Is it possible that I could be experiencing something like sympathy symptoms?
She has been pregnant now for about 9 weeks but only found out two weeks ago so I would have had to have been experiencing these before I even knew that she was pregnant.
July 15th, 2008 at 6:40 pm
Jess,
The birth control pill, when you first start taking it, can cause symptoms similar to both period symptoms and pregnancy symptoms. Did your doctor tell you when you should expect to get your first period after starting the pill, it usually ends up being different than your previous cycles. I would recommend talking to your doctor and having them do a blood pregnancy test if you think that may be the cause of your symptoms.
July 22nd, 2008 at 4:54 am
Hi
Im unsure if i preg im about 4 days late and i am havin clear discharge and cramps in my stomach now and then.I read ya other advice and you say go to ya doctors if i did go what type of test would they do (urine or blood). Plz can you get bk to me
Many thanks
Jo
July 22nd, 2008 at 6:38 am
Jo,
Most doctors will start with the urine test if you haven’t already done a home pregnancy test. Some will go straight to the blood test as it is more accurate.
July 22nd, 2008 at 4:16 pm
Ok…so I have been off the pill and this will be my second month without it. I have been having sex since my period ended on the 6th. Recently I have been extremely tired, felt sick to eat and headaches. I have also been having problems going to the bathroon (#2) I am not suppose to get my period for another 2 weeks I think. I know that it’s to early to test but what should I do in the mean time? I am in this alone until I find out for sure and im nervous and scared and def. confused on what to do Please help
July 22nd, 2008 at 6:39 pm
Meg,
Really the only thing you can do at this point is wait. Is there someone you can talk to about this? It might make it easier to wait if you have someone you can talk to about it.
July 24th, 2008 at 10:51 am
hi, im 25 yrs old. my bf and i have been having unprotected sex for about 2 months now. he does not pull out when he gets off. its inside of me. were prepared if we are prego!! but my ? is..i had my last period july 198, 2008 today is july 24th and i stil havent got it. im very sleepy and my breasts are soo tender?!?!? is it ok to take a test to see if im pregoo?? or what? i hate doctors offices so im not goin yet, but i am curious anyone out there??? and if i am pregnant is there anything fun about being prego? all i hear is bad stuff??? thanks for your help?
July 24th, 2008 at 11:51 am
Nina,
Once you have missed your period you can take a home pregnancy test. I would read the labels and pick one that says it is accurate either before, right at, or immediately following your missed period.
As far as if it is fun being pregnant that totally depends. I personally loved being pregnant. I had a really easy pregnancy with no complications. Some people love it, some people hate it, and others are somewhere in between!
July 29th, 2008 at 11:17 pm
hey i need some help… i am about 15 days late and i took a test it came back neg. i dont know what to do because i have not gotten it yet… i have safe se every thime and have not missed a period in like 3 or 4 years… i dont know what to do what are the odds of the test being wrong???
July 30th, 2008 at 5:51 am
Shar,
I would recommend going to see your doctor.
July 30th, 2008 at 12:20 pm
ok well i have a lot of symptoms of pregnany , hungryness, tired, cramps, back pian, headaches, dizziness, and nausea,and the feeling of being pregnant and i can also feel little fluttery movements in my lower abdomen. i have taken two pregnancy tests about 5 weeks apart, i have still been having my periods but they are differnt from normal so i looked this up on the internet and some women can have their periods for the first 3-5 months of their pregnancies, and not even know they are pregnant. now i feel this could be the case with me. if it is then i would approx be about 17 weeks and my stomach seems a lot more round and hips are larger, i am not able to book a doctors app as i am going abroard on sunday i tried to forget about thinking i was pregnant once i had both neg tests but now since feeling some movements i am getting worried. is there a reason why the tests are showing negative when i could be pregnant and what would you advice i should do, i am really confused and i have spoken to my partener and he confused and concern aswell PLEASE HELP ASAP thankyou
July 30th, 2008 at 1:57 pm
Racheal,
Wow, that is a bit weird isn’t it. Are you able to get into a walk in clinic or something before you leave? If you are I would recommend that. That way you can be examined and determine for sure if you are pregnant or not. I would think it is important to try to figure out for sure before you head abroad. Hope that helps. Best of luck to you.
August 14th, 2008 at 5:42 pm
My husband and I have been TTC for about 4 months. Last Saturday I started spotting - so lightly, and I still am five days later. I’m not supposed to get my period until the 17th, but I was under the impression that if implantation bleeding occurs, an EPT should pick up pregnancy. So, of course I’ve been staring at the EPT for way too long and I went ahead and took it today and it came back negative. I’m disappointed, but still hopeful that I took it too early. Should I be?
August 15th, 2008 at 10:21 am
Hi! I have a question? I am taking birth control pills,but I am having some of the symptoms of pregnancy. My question is can you still get pregnant even if you are taking your pills everyday and on time? Also,are there any side effects if I am still taking the pills even though I am having the symptoms?
August 17th, 2008 at 3:40 pm
Jackie,
Pregnancy tests do become more accurate the longer you wait. It is possible that you tested too early. I would recommend testing again if you still think you might be pregnant. I know it is hard when you are TTC, but don’t get your hopes up too much.
August 17th, 2008 at 3:42 pm
Shandrea,
The pill is a very effective form of birth control, however, it is still possible to become pregnant while on the pill. I would talk to you doctor to see if there are any side effects and to get tested.
August 17th, 2008 at 6:17 pm
I was with my boyfriend this weekend. Each time we did it (unprotected everytime) he pulled out then did it right after without urinated. We did that same thing 2 times Friday then, the same thing on Saturday. what are my chances of being pregnant? I’m suppose to start my period monday, could I still have gotten pregnant? Could I still have a period and be pregnant? It’s too early to have a test. How can I know for sure if I’m pregnant?
August 18th, 2008 at 7:29 am
Kaslynn,
It is possible to become pregnant anytime you have unprotected sex. It is probably too early to test, but you could talk to your doctor.
August 18th, 2008 at 6:29 pm
Lisa,
I am suppose to start between today and Wednesday. I haven’t started yet. I’m thinking about going and getting a home test Thursday, when do you think it would be ok to take it?
August 18th, 2008 at 6:55 pm
Kaslynn,
I would read the package of the HPT. They vary on when they are most effective. There are some out there that can detect smaller amounts of the pregnancy hormone and can be used prior to your missed period.
August 19th, 2008 at 9:31 am
Okay I Used A Condom But He Said It Busted And His Stuff Was Inside That Was Like 6 Days Ago Is It Too Early To Take A Test Or Get Any Symptoms
August 19th, 2008 at 11:42 am
Jasmine,
It is probably too early to take a home pregnancy test as it takes a while for the pregnancy hormone to show up in your urine. However, you could talk to your doctor and determine when you can get a blood test as the pregnancy hormone shows up sooner in your blood.
August 21st, 2008 at 7:45 pm
Right, Well My Bf Cum Inside Me On The 4th August And Again On The 12th..
The First Time (4th) I Was Still On My Period But Very Light..However The Second Time I Wasn’t On My Period..
It’s Now The 22nd August And I’m Rather Worried If I Am Pregnant.
I’ve Become Very Emotional, Hungry And Tired..
Could I Be Pregnant?
I’m Not To Sure When I Should Do A Test Because I Thought It’s Only Been Two Weeks So It’s Still Early..
Help Please..
August 21st, 2008 at 9:02 pm
My period was shorter and lighter than normal. The only symptoms i’ve noticed are backaches, urinating alot, and feeling tired. Could I be pregnant?