There is something to be said for the comfort that comes from seeing your own doctor, being close the hospitals you know and dealing with a health care system that is familiar when you’re pregnant. Since I am thousands and thousands of miles from home I have none of those luxuries, I, instead, find myself seeing a doctor I like but don’t really know at all and immersed in a health care system I know absolutely nothing about. Can you say stress inducers!
When Lorne first found out that he had been offered this rotation program to Australia it was only weeks after I found out I was pregnant. At the time the idea of traveling so far from home in the middle of my pregnancy was scary. We talked a lot about the logistics and the timing of the whole adventure before deciding it just wasn’t an opportunity we could pass up. The closer we got to our departure the more stressed and nervous I became. I talked at length with my OB about what I could expect my body to do given the stress of the actual traveling and what I should and shouldn’t do while in Australia to help ensure a healthy few months pregnancy wise. He gave me lots of tips and advice, which I was so thankful for. But, that didn’t seem to calm my fears.
Arriving here in Australia, having spent 28 hours either in an airport or on an airplane and having no apparent ill affects from the journey helped calm my fears a bit. Finally meeting my Australian OB and his staff, and finding that I liked them all, went a long way to ease my crazed nerves. But, it seems as if nothing can really take away this little ball of worry I carry around with me every day.
Every ache, every twinge, every odd sensation comes packaged with a lot of extra stress. Even though I am healthy, the baby is healthy, and my pregnancy is progressing well and without complications (knock on wood) I can’t help but worry, and stress over all the “what if’s”. I think we pregnant women are prone to worry as it is, but when you couple that with being so far from home, immersed in a health care system I know nothing about, I am a much bigger ball of nerves than I ever was during my first pregnancy.
My hope is that the remainder of our time here in Brisbane sees this pregnancy continuing to progress well and complication free and that Baby Girl 2.0 and I both continue to be healthy so I don’t have to test the waters of the Australian health care system beyond my monthly visits to the obstetrician. I don’t really think there is anything I can do about this ball of worry. I’m pretty sure I’m destined to carry it around with me through the rest of our trip.
On Tuesday I had my first appointment with the obstetrician I’ll be using while we are here in Australia. It was my 20 week regular monthly appointment. At home that would have meant a super quick and easy appointment that consisted of a urine screen, weigh in, blood pressure reading, fundal measurement and listening to the baby’s heartbeat. In and out in 15-20 minutes tops. However, I wasn’t quite sure what to expect at my first appointment here in Australia. I wasn’t sure how similar their prenatal care is to our prenatal care in the United States. I expected a bit longer visit since it was my first meeting with this doctor but other than that I went into it blind.
I had a hard time sleeping the night before my appointment. I was nervous about meeting the new doctor and what to expect from my appointment. Luckily, we had spent some time over the weekend figuring out the bus route to there and finding exactly where the office was so it was super easy for Maya and I to get there Tuesday morning. It gave me one less thing to worry about. My appointment was scheduled for 9:30 so we headed out the door a little after 8am to catch the 8:25 bus. The bus was running a bit late but got us to the hospital bus station right on time (sometimes you gotta love public transportation and crazy Australian bus drivers!).
Since we had walked by the office building on Saturday I knew it was a very nice looking office and I was anxious to see what it was like inside. It was gorgeous. The office is fairly big, they staff 4 OBs and 3 midwives. The waiting area is full of super comfy chairs, a bathroom (because we pregnant women need bathrooms everywhere!) and a great little play area for the kiddos. Let me tell you, the play area is a godsend for those of us who have to bring our little ones along. Maya had a great time playing with all the toys and reading the books. She actually didn’t want to leave when it was my turn to go back with the doctor.
When it was my turn I was greeted in the waiting room by the actual doctor! I had expected to be called back by a nurse. They actually don’t have any nurses on staff, the doctors and the midwives do everything. I sat with the doctor in his office for a while going over my medical history and reviewing my records from my doctor in the US. He had to pull out his calculator several times because all the weight measurements on my charts are in pounds and he is used to kilograms. It stumped me too when I hopped on the scale and it weighed me in kilograms. He broke out the calculator again to let me know what my weight was in pounds.
After our long talk about my medical history and prenatal care history for this pregnancy the appointment continued exactly like it would have had I been visiting my OB in the US. He took my blood pressure, had me get on the scale to be weighed (I haven’t gained any weight since my last appointment in the US but he didn’t seem concerned), then he felt my abdomen and listened to the baby’s heartbeat with the doppler. He explained what to expect at my next appointments and it sounds like the prenatal care is exactly like it is in the US. The one exception is that they don’t do a urine screen at every appointment, they only do urine screens if there is another indicator, like higher blood pressure than at previous appointments.
After I met with the doctor he had me sit down with one of the midwives so I could get to know her and she could go over the do’s and don’ts during pregnancy in Australia. The midwife was so nice. She went over everything with me as far as what exercise is permitted, the foods to avoid, etc. It is all the same as the do’s and don’ts rules in the US.
It ended up being a great appointment. Everything is progressing well with the pregnancy, Baby Girl 2.0 sounded great and I’m all set for another month. I really liked the doctor, the midwife and the front desk staff. Everyone was super friendly and nice. Turns out I had nothing to be nervous about.
I’ve made to the halfway point of my pregnancy. I’m now 20 weeks pregnant! Some days it feels like I’ve been pregnant forever and other days I can hardly believe I’m already this far along. When I took that pregnancy test 16 weeks ago this day felt so far away and now it is already here. Which means, of course, that 20ish weeks from now I’ll be looking back thinking I feel like I just hit the halfway point how am I already at the end.
This pregnancy has been very similar to my pregnancy with Maya. My morning sickness went away at exactly the same point, I felt Baby Girl 2.0 move the same week in my pregnancy as I did with Maya, she is also a big mover just like her sister was, and so far (knock on wood) I’m having a pretty easy breezy 2nd trimester. Let’s hope the similarities continue and I have a pretty easy and uneventful second half of this pregnancy.
The past week I’ve definitely started to feel more pregnant. I’m sure a lot of that has to do with the fact that I spent almost 2 days last week traveling around the world and have spent the rest of the week trying to recovery from jetlag. Before we headed out my belly was there but I could still hide it if I wore certain clothing. Now, it is most definitely there and there is no hiding it anymore. It seems that my belly decided to pop somewhere out over the middle of the ocean. So, the added growth out front coupled with A LOT of walking over the last few days has left me with a very achy back. I’ll have to enlist Lorne’s help with a few back rubs and foot massages
Tomorrow I’ll have my first doctor’s appointment here in Australia. I’m nervous about meeting the new doctor and the staff in his office. I really hope I like him. It would be horrible to end up not liking him. Luckily, I am here for the easiest part of my pregnancy, prenatal care wise. I’ll have 3 appointments while I’m here and the only test I’ll need is my glucose screen in a few weeks. The appointments should be pretty cut and dry.
Here’s to a happy, healthy remaining 20 weeks (give or take)!
Growing up I was surrounded by boys. I had four younger brothers, yes, that’s right, four. Being the only girl had its advantages and I love my brothers to pieces, but I always wondered what it would be like to have a sister. Someone who understood me in a way my brothers never could. Someone to share toys and clothes with. A built in best friend.
When I found out that baby #2 was a girl I was extra excited because I knew that meant Maya was going to get to experience what it is like to have a sister.
Today while Maya and I were out picking up a few things I asked Maya if she wanted to buy something for her baby sister. She got super excited and looked all over the baby section for the perfect gift. She finally settled on a soft Tigger rattle that, according to Maya, will be the baby’s favorite toy! I loved watching her search for the perfect girl and get all excited about the idea of her baby sister.
I also found “Big Sister” and “Little Sister” t-shirts for my girls
I can’t wait to see them wearing their shirts together. I can’t wait to bear witness to the wonderful bond my two girls are going to have. My girls, I like the sound of that
Today was our big anatomy ultrasound. Although the baby did try to hide the goods from us at first we were able to find out what this little monkey is.
Drumroll please…
When we got into the room the ultrasound tech asked Maya if she wanted a girl baby or a boy baby. She answered the same way she has from the very beginning “Girl Baby”. She got her wish, she is going to have a little sister. We are so excited. I have been thinking girl all along, and I was right! Lorne is really out numbered now
This little girl, just like her big sister, tried really hard to hide the goods. The ultrasound tech got a shot that I thought looked like little girl parts but didn’t say anything. She went about taking more measurements and then tried for the potty shot again and sure enough it was definitely girl parts. We had a third look right at the end of the ultrasound just for good measure and reassurance.
The baby is currently breech. Not a big deal since she will likely flip around several times between now and her big arrival, but it sure does explain why I’ve been feeling so many of her kicks down low.
It was so sweet seeing her little face on the ultrasound screen and watching her little squirms. I’m glad all three of us got to be there. We can’t wait to welcome this new Little Miss in July.
Here is our Baby Girl 2.0
So, I know my guess was right. Was yours?




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