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Our departure for Australia is looming in the not to distant future. Although, we don’t have an exact date yet we know we will be leaving sometime this month.  Yesterday I started trying to get organized and started a packing list.  I made one of things that need to go in my suitcase and carry on bag and one for Maya’s suitcase and carry on bag.  The list is long and yet I feel like I’m still not thinking about everything we will need.

Last week I talked about my fear of flying on such a long flight with a 3 year old and got some great suggestions on things to pack in a carry on for Maya.  I feel like our carry on situation is all figured out.  We just need to determine which toys and books will make the cut and be included in the carry on.  Maya will have her own carry on so that will help lighten the load in my bag and free up some space so I can bring a few things to occupy myself.

As I was making my list yesterday I tried to think of our routines.  Things like getting ready in the morning, getting ready for bed, etc.  But, I had to think about what those routines are like when it is warm outside.  It is hard to remember all the things we use in warm weather when it is freezing outside.  As I worked on the list and watched it get longer and longer I realized how hard it is to pack and prepare for a 3 month journey.

3 months is a long time to be away from home.  How do you really prepare for all the things you might need?  I think I’m just going to need to get the bags packed and go from there.  I don’t want to bring too much because my 32 weeks pregnant self, traveling alone with Maya, will not want to have to lug around too much stuff at the airport.  But, at the same time I don’t want to pack too light and discover that we need to buy a ton of stuff when we get there.  I’m stressing myself out just writing about it!

Luckily, we are traveling to a warm climate at a time when we are not using any of our warm weather clothing, so, I’ll be able to pack ahead of time and have plenty of time to check and recheck my trusty list.

Ever since we found out we are heading to Australia I’ve been thinking a lot about the very, very long plane ride we will have to take to get there.  I’m wondering how on earth a 3 year old will handle sitting on an airplane for 15-20 hours when I cannot figure out how I (a 33 year old) am going to manage sitting on an airplane for 15-20 hours.  How on earth do you pack enough snacks and activities in a small carry-on to cover you for that length of time?

Maya has been on an airplane a few times in her 3 years of life and has done really well each time.  However, those trips were only a couple of hours long, a mere drop in the bucket compared with the epic trip in our future.  Packing a carry-on for a 2 hour plane trip I can handle, I’ve got that down pat.  But how do I take that 2 hour plane ride carry-on and make it into something that lasts 10 times as long.  I’m afraid to think about how large my carry on will need to be.

I’ve been doing a lot of reading/research online about what you need to bring along when embarking on an airline travel of epic proportions.  Here’s what I’ve come up with so far that needs to be in my carry-on bag.

  • A change of clothes in case of any potty or food/beverage related accidents.
  • A warm layer to add to her comfy airplane outfit in case the plane is chilly.
  • A large array of snacks including granola bars, dried fruit, fruit snacks (Maya’s fav), crackers, cereal, etc.
  • A sippy cup or a cup with a straw so we don’t have to worry about her drinks ending up all over her, us or the aircraft.
  • A large array of activities including books, coloring books/crayons, movies/dvd player, her polly pocket sized princess toys, a hand-held game device of some kind.
  • And of course, her blankie and a favorite stuffed toy.

The trick, I think, will be making sure the things we choose for the plane are new enough and exciting enough to really grab her attention and hold it for a while. My plan is to pick up a few new books, a couple of new movies and a new hand-held game device/games (like a leapster or something) for her and not let her have the stuff until we are on the plane so everything is still new and interesting.  If I keep the snacks to finger food type snacks I should be able to pack enough variety and quantity to last (I hope).

Since we will be on the plane for such I long time sleep will be necessary for all of us.  This will be the trickiest part.  Maya is not a good travel sleeper. She doesn’t sleep much in the car and the last time she slept when on an airplane was when she was only 10 months old and I breastfed her to sleep.  I’m hoping that sheer exhaustion will get the better of her and she’ll eventually just crash.  My concern is that over-tiredness and boredom will be fuel enough for some epic meltdowns before the sleep takes over.

Really only time will tell how this trip will go and I’m sure we’ll learn somethings on the way there that will hopefully make the trip home that much easier.

So, for those of you who have traveled long distances with your youngsters what wisdom do you have to share with me?  What am I not thinking about as far as the carry-on luggage goes? What have you learned in your experiences that you hadn’t thought of before you traveled?  Any tips, tricks, words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated.

One would think that having another baby would be adventure enough for this year?  Not us, we clearly like to live on the adventurous side. A new baby wasn’t enough adventure for my husband so we are shaking things up a bit and heading down under for 3-4 months.  That’s right ladies and gentleman, in the middle of my pregnancy we are packing up and moving to Australia (temporarily anyway)!!

We don’t know our exact departure date yet as we are waiting on our visa paperwork to be finalized, but sometime next month the three of us will be boarding a plane for a very long flight and heading out on what promises to be a memorable and fun adventure.

So, why exactly are we heading to Australia? For Lorne’s job. It just so happens that Lorne’s employer has an office (several actually) in Australia.  He has been chomping at the bit to get a rotation position over there for years. It just so happened that at the end of last year all the stars aligned and he was offered and accepted a position.  The rotation is supposed to be 6 months long but since I’m pregnant and that would have us out of the country when the baby is due they have agreed to shorten the length of the rotation by a month or so.  Lorne will be in Australia for 4-5 months (depending on when we actually head down) and Maya and I will be there for 3-4 months.

We are super, super excited.  And, although, the idea of traveling that far away from home while pregnant is a bit nerve-wracking it is not an opportunity we can pass up and it is taking place during the perfect time in my pregnancy.  I’ve already found an obstetrician to work with while I’m in Australia so I’m all set there.

The next few weeks to a month are going to be very busy for us while we figure out where we will be living, finalize the details of our travel arrangements and figure out just what we need to bring with us.  Busy, busy, busy.

Not exactly looking forward to the ridiculously long flights, especially the one on the way home where I will be traveling alone with a 3 year old while 32 weeks pregnant!! But, hey what can you do, right.  I am looking forward to leaving our winter weather for the lovely summer and fall weather of Brisbane, Australia.  I am looking forward to exploring what appears to be a beautiful city in a country I’ve always wanted to go to.  I am looking forward to taking a million pictures and sharing all our adventures with all of you.

Autumn has always been my favorite time of year. I discovered this past weekend that it is also my favorite time of year for a road trip. The colors are beautiful and the air is cool and crisp. Perfect for road tripping.

Saturday my brother-in-law and his fiance got hitched. We had to make the trip up to Thunder Bay, Ontario from St. Louis in order to attend the festivities. Since the drive is quite long we had to break it into 2 days. The first day we drove to Minneapolis, about 2/3 of the way there. The drive was beautiful and our destination, the Mall of America, was so much fun.

Maya wanted to take a turn driving.

Maya wanted to take a turn driving.

Maya loved the Mall of America

Maya loved the Mall of America

The second day of our road trip ended up being perfect.  It was a shorter drive and the weather was awesome. Perfectly sunny, nice cool temperatures and scenery that just took our breath away.  We stopped once along Lake Superior to get out for a few minutes, stretch our legs and let Maya throw some rocks in the lake.

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The day ended with us in Thunder Bay at Chad and Kathleen’s house (my brother-in-law and sister-in-law).  We spent the next couple of days helping them get ready for their big as we hoped the very nasty, chilly, rainy weather would clear for their wedding.

As luck would have it, the weather on Saturday was perfect. Crystal clear skies and perfect fall temperatures.  The perfect backdrop for what ended up being an absolutely beautiful wedding.

Lorne, his brother Chad (the groom) and his brother Cliff

Lorne, his brother Chad (the groom) and his brother Cliff

Maya being entertained by her Aunt Emma before the ceremony.

Chad and Kathleen exchanging their vows.

Chad and Kathleen exchanging their vows.

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It was a perfect weekend.  A beautiful road trip and an even more beautiful wedding. I’m so glad we were able to make the trip up to help Chad and Kathleen celebrate.

We are hitting the road.  I know, you’re thinking to yourself, didn’t they just “hit the road” a few weeks ago, didn’t they just get back from vacation.  Why yes, yes we did.  However, we are heading out again.  My brother-in-law and his fiance are getting married this weekend, and Lorne is in the wedding party.  So, needless to say, that requires us to head back up to Ontario.
Of course, like with most of our vacations, it also means we will be spending a great deal of time in a car.  4 days to be exact (to say I’m not looking forward to that part of it is a complete understatement).  The idea of sitting in a car for 4 days out of 7 isn’t exactly my idea of a good time, but I know it’ll be worth it to spend time with Lorne’s family as we help his brother and wife to be celebrate their marriage.
The bags are packed, our dress up clothes, including Maya’s “beautiful new dress”, are ready to go.  The only thing left to do is wake up first thing this morning and head on out on the open road.

We are hitting the road…again.  I know, you’re thinking to yourself, didn’t they just “hit the road” a few weeks ago, didn’t they just get back from vacation.  Why yes, yes we did.  However, we are heading out again.  My brother-in-law and his fiance are getting married this weekend, and Lorne is in the wedding.  So, needless to say, that requires us to head back up to Ontario.

Of course, like with most of our vacations, it also means we will be spending a great deal of time in a car.  4 days to be exact (to say I’m not looking forward to that part of it is a complete understatement).  The idea of sitting in a car for 4 days out of 7 isn’t exactly my idea of a good time, but I know it’ll be worth it to help the happy couple celebrate their marriage.  Plus, I love an excuse to put on my fancy clothes and see my husband in a suit.  And, since I don’t get to do it all that often, I’ll settle for driving long distances for the opportunity.

The bags are packed, our dress up clothes are pressed and ready to go, and movies and coloring books have been procured for the entertainment of the little one.  The only thing left to do is wake up bright and early and head on out on the open road.