Unfortunately our babies can’t tell us what is wrong.  Life would be so much easier if they could just say something like “My ear hurts.” or “My tummy hurts.”, but instead you have to figure it out by the subtle changes in their cries or pick up on something different they are doing with their hands.  It can be a challenge and devastating for a new mom (or dad) who can’t figure out what is wrong.

So what can you look for to give you a good idea that your little one may be hurting?  Here are a few things to look for.  Always call your doctor or take your child to the hospital if you aren’t sure and something appears to be wrong.

  • A change in your baby’s cry.  A different pitch, crying longer than normal, cry is harder and louder than normal.
  • Change in facial features.  An unusual furrowing of the brow, squinting of the eyes, deep wrinkles or lines, bright red face.
  • The baby’s body is stiff or very tense. (However, some baby’s go very limp when in pain)
  • Irritability.
  • Tugging on a part of the body while fussing.  For example, a baby with an earache will likely pull on his ear.

If you aren’t sure you should call your doctor’s office.  Sometimes just talking to the doctor or a nurse can help make you feel better about the situation, or maybe they’ll help you pick up on something you didn’t notice.  One day your child will be able to tell you when something is wrong.   But for now it is up to you to pick up on the signs and guess!!

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